19 percent college students suicide sochte hain, kya hum pressure se apne bachcho ko maar rahe hain?
Ek 18 saal ki student ne likha main JEE nahi kar sakti, main loser hoon aur phir usne apni jaan de di. Wo 18 saal ki thi. Uske saamne poori zindagi thi. Aur wo ek exam nahi pass kar paane ke karan khud ko failure mehsoos karke mar gayi. Ye koi ek kahani nahi hai. Ye har din pura India me ho raha hai. 9 states ke 30 universities me ek study me paya gaya ki 19 percent college students ne kabhi na kabhi suicide ke baare me socha tha. 19 percent. Lagbhag 5 me se 1. Zara sochiye. Agar aap 50 students wale classroom me hain toh unme se kareeb 10 ne khud ko maarne ke baare me socha hai. Aur koi iske baare me baat nahi kar raha. Pressure jaldi shuru ho jata hai. Class 6 ya 7 tak parents pehle se apne bachcho ki tulna padosi ke bachche se kar rahe hain jise 95 percent mile. Class 9 tak bachcho ko JEE aur NEET ki coaching me bheja ja raha hai. 14 saal ki umar me. Schools students ki rank publicly batate hain aur kam marks walon ko sharminda karte hain. Report cards poori class ke saamne baante jaate hain. Kam score walon ko aisa mehsoos karaya jata hai jaise unki koi kadr nahi hai. Coaching centers IIT aur AIIMS ka sapna bechte hain lekin 99 percent jo nahi chune jaate unke baare me kabhi nahi batate. Wo aapko 1 percent dikhate hain jinhe 100 ke bhitar AIR mila aur hoarding par lagate hain. Wo hazaron ko kabhi nahi dikhate jo toote hue ghar laute. Indian students ka mental health chupchaap toot raha hai aur koi iske baare me baat karna nahi chahta. Mental health India me abhi bhi taboo hai. Agar bachcha kehta hai ki wo depressed hai toh parents kehte hain bas tanav hai, zyada padho. Agar bachcha kehta hai ki wo cope nahi kar sakta toh use bahane banana band karne ko kaha jata hai. Schools me counselors nahi hain. Colleges me mental health support nahi hai. Sarkar student mental health programs par lagbhag kuch kharch nahi karti. Parents kehte hain bas bachcho ka bhalaa chahte hain. Aur main un par yakeen karta hoon. Koi bhi mata-pita nahi chahte ki unka bachcha tadpe. Lekin kya wo pressure asal me unhe maar raha hai? Jab aap apne bachche ko kehte hain ki JEE hi ekmatra vikalp hai, toh aap unhe prerit nahi kar rahe, aap unhe phasa rahe hain. Jab aap unki tulna Sharma ji ke bete se karte hain, toh aap unhe prerit nahi kar rahe, aap unhe kuchal rahe hain. Jab aap kehte hain ki aapki kadr aapki rank hai, toh aap unhe bata rahe hain ki bina rank ke wo bekar hain. India me duniya ke sabse zyada student suicide rates me se ek hai. NCRB data ke anusaar 2022 me 13,000 se zyada students ne suicide kiya. Wo har din 35 se zyada students hain. 35 bachche har din is pressure se behtar maut chun rahe hain. Aur sarkar ka javaab? Chuppi. Schools ka javaab? Aur tests. Coaching centers ka javaab? Aur batches. Parents ka javaab? Aur pressure. Hum kab jaagenge? Kab manenge ki ek exam rank bachche ki jaan se zyada nahi hai? Kya parents bachcho ko maut ki taraf dhakel rahe hain ya system zyada bura hai?